Things don’t always go right.
In your personal life and in your business world, it’s not always smooth sailing.
Yet, learning from challenges provides vital knowledge and experience for handling the next setback that’s inevitably going to come along. The way you react to a challenge can set the stage for success or failure.
And resilience can bring rewarding results.
Turning Setbacks into Stepping Stones
Gill Corkindale writes in the Harvard Business Review about the incredible power gleaned from resiliency. At a conference he was coaching for international leaders, he learned the story of Atef, now a senior VP at a bank in the United States.
Atef grew up in the West Bank, a region of strife. He had no formal education. When Atef was 15, his father died, leaving him to provide for his family. From waiting on tables to driving taxi, Atef saved enough to educate himself and earned a scholarship to a school in the United States. He took a low paying job at a bank, worked his way up and was rewarded with a promotion at the age of 35. Sponsored by the bank, Atef earned his MBA at a premier business school.
Atef stated that facing – and overcoming – all the adversity in his early life shaped him. Whatever challenges faced him, he became determined to overcome them. That steadfastness has given him a discipline of balance and assuredness.
Today’s Students are Tomorrow’s Leaders
Atef’s story showcases how dealing positively and successfully with life’s problems as they come along go a long way in building resiliency. Yet something has happened to resiliency in today’s youth.
In Psychology Today, Peter Gray discusses how colleges are dealing with well, a rather wimpy attitude among students over common, everyday events. He cites an example of two students who called the police – and later sought counseling – when they discovered a mouse in their apartment. He notes students are regularly seeking help for everyday problems in life, from receiving a low grade on a paper to being name called.
Facing problems – not shrinking from them – breeds resiliency. It’s a basic concept in life that needs to be focused on, not tip-toed around.
Psychologist Carol Dweck discovered a striking difference between individuals who believed change was a part of growth compared to those who felt their abilities were not changeable. She found that those who believed their abilities were fluid achieved significantly better results when faced with formidable tasks.
Building Resiliency in Leadership
Becoming a successful leader means overcoming challenges and discovering innovative ways to tackle problems. If fear enters the mindset, it can paralyze our progress.
In Forbes, Megan Biro lists ways to be a more resilient leader. She cautions leaders to become aware that when things go wrong, it’s not all about you. Many factors can play into poor performance. Don’t be Atlas and attempt to carry the world on your shoulders – you can only do so much. And of course, positive thinking is a must, along with relationship building.
Within an organization, social and emotional intelligence is vital to the success of an organization. And when we develop social and emotional intelligence in the workplace, we begin to see stronger leadership and a more productive, rewarding and yes, resilient, environment.
As a leader, you’ve faced obstacles to get where you are today. Share your experiences below and inspire others to see how your resiliency led you to your success!
“The oak fought the wind and was broken, the willow bent when it must and survived.”
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Colleen Slaughter, Proud Executive Coach to the UN World Food Program, the 2020 Nobel Peace Prize Winner
As an Executive Coach for Women in Leadership and Transformational Facilitator, my intention is to help leaders in positions of high influence to understand their worth at a profound level.
Supporting women leaders to truly thrive and step into their greatness, while succeeding in male-dominated industries and spaces is my native genius.
My technique and approach show you how to achieve incredible career success without compromising any part of who you are and what makes you magnificent.